Survivors
The survivor file: what a spouse needs before they need it
The hardest week of a family's life is the wrong time to discover that nobody knows where the documents are.
Elena Marquez · President & CEO · August 7, 2026 · 4 min read
The file is an act of care
A survivor file is not a morbid exercise. It is a short, practical set of facts that lets the person who shares your life act without reconstructing your entire financial history in the middle of grief.
The file should name the accounts, the contacts, the documents and the decisions. It should live somewhere the household can find it, and it should be reviewed once a year.
What belongs in it
Keep the list short enough to maintain. These are the items that repeatedly matter.
- Retired pay and survivor benefit contacts.
- Account numbers and the bank's named contact.
- Beneficiary designations and the date they were last reviewed.
- Insurance, mortgage and property documents.
- The location of the will, powers of attorney and identification.
Rehearse it once
A file nobody can find is not a plan. Once a year, open it with the person who would need it and confirm that every contact still works. River Gem's Survivor Continuity Kit includes a printable checklist and a named-banker card for exactly this conversation.
“Continuity is a document, a contact and a rehearsal — not a promise that someone will figure it out later.”
Elena Marquez
President & CEO, River Gem Bank
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